The Reality Is
Welcome to "The Reality Is," a podcast where the pastors of Crossroads Community Church gather to discuss the practical application of biblical principles in our daily lives. Join us as we explore how faith can guide us through the challenges and triumphs of real life. Whether it's relationships, work, or personal growth, we're here to help you live out your faith meaningfully. This podcast's premise is about how to apply biblical principles to our everyday lives. Tune in for insightful conversations that inspire and empower you to pursue Christ with every moment of your life.
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Episodes
40 episodes
Finding Your Passion for God Again
If your faith feels distant, this episode is for you. Joey and Richard talk about how to bring your relationship with God back to life by making simple changes and trusting His plan.
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Season 2
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Episode 11
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45:40
Finding God’s Will Beyond Personal Desires
This episode addresses the difficulty of setting aside self-driven ambitions in favor of God’s direction. Pastors Joey and Richard talk about letting go of preferences to follow where God leads, even if it challenges comfort zones. They provide...
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Season 2
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Episode 10
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42:49
Managing Anger God’s Way
In this episode, Pastors Joey and Richard explore anger from a biblical standpoint, clarifying the often misunderstood concept of righteous indignation versus sinful anger. They offer practical advice on recognizing when anger reflects God’s ju...
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Season 2
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Episode 9
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49:16
The Toxic Trap
Pastors Joey and Richard open up about the pitfalls of people-pleasing, especially when it makes us vulnerable to toxic relationships. They share their own experiences and offer tips on how to prioritize God’s will over trying to keep everyone ...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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54:26
Faith Beyond Understanding
What does it mean to truly trust in God, even when life takes unexpected and painful turns? This episode dives into the nature of faith and why we can confidently trust that God’s plan, though sometimes hidden, is always working for our good. P...
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Season 2
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Episode 8
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57:01
Restoring Joy
In this episode, Pastors Joey and Richard explore the key reasons why many believers struggle to experience the joy God intends for them. They identify several "joy killers," including unresolved conflict, difficult relationships, misplaced pri...
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Season 2
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Episode 7
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53:17
What’s Stealing Your Peace?
Many Christians struggle with maintaining their joy. Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard identify the major “joy killers” that rob believers of their peace, such as neglecting time with God and having an ungrateful attitude. Learn practical ways to ...
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Season 2
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Episode 6
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49:00
Cultural Christianity vs. Authentic Faith
The episode touches on how many people, including influential figures, try to blend secularism with Christianity, creating a diluted version of faith. The pastors argue that this compromises the truth of the gospel, stressing the importance of ...
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Season 2
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Episode 5
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42:27
The God of Hope
What does it mean to find hope in God, especially in uncertain times? Pastor Richard and Pastor Joey look at Romans 15:13, reminding listeners that God fills us with hope and joy through the Holy Spirit. Whether in personal struggles or global ...
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Season 2
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Episode 4
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54:13
Faith Over Fear
Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard unpack the importance of prioritizing faith over fear. With personal reflections and scripture, they highlight how fear can stem from being overly attached to earthly things, and the significance of fully trusting...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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55:18
Real Peace vs. Worldly Peace
Are we allowing the pressures of the world to dictate our peace, or are we standing firm in the peace Christ has promised? Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss how real peace, rooted in a relationship with Christ, differs from the fleeting pe...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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49:48
Biblical Illiteracy: Why Personal Devotion Matters
In this Season 2 opener, the pastors tackle the issue of biblical illiteracy and why personal devotion is vital for every Christian. They discuss the dangers of neglecting God’s Word and how regular devotion helps believers stay rooted in scrip...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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50:02
Navigating Life's Gray Areas
In this episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard discuss the often confusing gray areas in life where the Bible doesn’t give explicit commands. They explore how Christians can make decisions that honor God and avoid causing others to stumble, fo...
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53:40
Understanding the Synoptic Gospels
Explore the origins and significance of the Synoptic Gospels—Matthew, Mark, and Luke. Pastor Joey and Pastor Ed Gravely delve into why these gospels are so similar yet distinct and how they provide a comprehensive view of Jesus's life and teach...
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Season 1
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Episode 27
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46:54
The Intersection of Faith and Ethics
Join us this week on The Reality Is as we hear the fascinating journey of Pastor RaShan Frost from a college football coach to a dedicated church planter of The Bridge Church Charleston. He and Pastor Joey dive into the distinction between ethi...
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Season 1
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Episode 26
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1:05:58
Embracing Absolute Truth in a Changing World
Dive into a discussion on absolute truth as Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard challenge the belief that truth is relative. They affirm that God's Word is the ultimate, unchanging standard that guides our lives.
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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50:24
Leaving a Godly Legacy
How do we prepare the next generation to carry on a legacy of faith? Pastors Joey and Richard discuss the biblical approach to building a legacy that lasts, focusing on discipleship, encouragement, and equipping young believers with the tools t...
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Season 1
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Episode 24
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54:05
Using Godly Wisdom to Recognize Foolish Advice
How can we recognize foolish people and advice in our lives? This episode explores biblical definitions of folly and practical steps to avoid misleading guidance. We discuss the importance of consulting the Bible and godly wisdom when navigatin...
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Season 1
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Episode 23
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52:48
The Art of Christian Mentorship
Join Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard as they unpack the concept of mentorship within a Christian context. They discuss what it means to be a Biblical mentor and how mentorship differs from other forms of leadership and guidance. The episode cove...
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Season 1
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Episode 22
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51:30
The Impact of Accountability in Faith
In this episode, Pastor Joey and Pastor Richard tackle the vital topic of accountability. They discuss the importance of allowing others to speak into our lives, illustrating how a deceitful heart can lead us astray without the guidance of trus...
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Season 1
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Episode 21
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49:08
The Reality of Friendship: From Bald Heads to Biblical Bonds
Join Joey and Richard as they chat about everything from the quirky question of whether bald heads need shampoo to the deep stuff about what makes a friendship really stick, Bible style. They share personal stories, laugh a lot, and dive into w...
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Season 1
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Episode 20
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52:13
Unveiling the Promise of Hope in the Resurrection Story
Have you ever wondered about the true meaning of Easter? It's a time to celebrate something amazing, a story of love and hope that's older than time itself. In this episode we'll discover why Easter is more than just chocolate bunnies and color...
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47:33
Weathering Life's Storms with Unseen Blessings
Join us as we talk about what it means to be blessed through the eyes of faith, and not through the lens of material things. As Easter approaches, we ponder the transformative power of the resurrection and how it reshapes our view of trials and...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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44:20
Courage Under Fire The Spiritual Warriors of the Military
Ever wondered about the spiritual guardians who watch over our soldiers' hearts and minds? My friend Godfrey, a military chaplain with a penchant for Harley Davidsons and woodworking, joins me to shed light on this often-misunderstood vocatio...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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43:42
Balancing Modern Life with the Timeless Teachings of Christ
Our latest episode invites you into an intimate conversation about refocusing your life on Jesus. Pastor Richard and Pastor Joey laugh about our their own distraction-prone habits and share wisdom from Christ's teachings on love, digging into t...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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49:16